How far is too far? And is karma REALLY a bitch?

I've been seeing a guy for several months, and he was blackmailed into moving to the other side of the country... by an ex-employer/boyfriend... I know what you are thinking. "Shouldn't he have KNOWN better than the fuck the boss?"

Well, as it so happens... YES, he did know better, only when they started dating, it wasn't the boss... it was the boyfriend. Then, the boss/boyfriend hired him, they broke up, he starting dating me (under the table, as it were) and was fired....

Well, short story... My BF was blackmailed by so said owner into breaking up with me, and in return he would provide moving expenses and a settlement fund so that BF could move away and start a new life.. Mind you.. I knew about all this and we mutually agreed on it.

Well, NOW, my name is MUD, and I have been the conversation around the water cooler for the past few months...

Here is my query... At what point do I rise above the situation (not the one with the abs, although paper bagged and double bagged I would SO do) and take the moral high road, or do I let the people in this town know, who have treated me poorly, stabbed me in the back, talked shit about me, and done me dirty do I say "hey, enough is enough. I'll fuck you up worse than Nancy Kerrigan!" or "I'm better than this. I don't have to sink to your level. I'm above you and will thrive beyond the pit of despair that is your existence."

So, what do I do? Take the moral high road? Or tell everyone that did me dirty exactly how I feel? Input needed...

That is all.